This lesson focuses on the phrases you need for common social situations: asking how someone is feeling and responding politely. This language is essential for courtesy in English.
1. Lesson Goals
- Ask about someone’s well-being using different levels of formality.
- Give positive, neutral, and negative responses.
- Use key polite expressions like “Thank you,” “Sorry,” and “Excuse me.”
2. Asking and Answering About Well-being
The way you ask and answer depends on the situation (formal or informal).
A. Asking the Question
| Formality | Question | Notes |
|---|---|---|
| Standard | How are you? | The most common phrase in all situations. |
| Informal | How are you doing? | Common when talking to friends. |
B. Giving the Answer
Always remember to say “Thank you” and ask the question back!
| Type of Response | Example Answers | Follow-up Question |
|---|---|---|
| Positive 😄 | I’m fine. / I’m great! / Good. | Thank you. And you? |
| Neutral 😐 | I’m okay. / Not bad. / So-so. | Thanks. How about you? |
| Negative 🙁 | I’m not so good. / I’m tired. | Thank you. And yourself? |
3. Essential Polite Expressions
These are necessary phrases for basic interaction.
| Expression | When to Use It | Example |
|---|---|---|
| Thank you | When someone helps you or gives you something. | Thank you for the coffee. |
| You’re welcome | The polite response to “Thank you.” |
You’re welcome! No problem. |
| Excuse me | To get attention or pass through a crowd. | Excuse me, is this seat free? |
| Sorry | To apologize for a mistake or minor offense. | Sorry, I am late for class. |
| Please | To ask for something politely. | Can I see your book, please? |
4. Practice Dialogue: Everyday Meeting
Read the conversation aloud:
A: Good morning, Tom! How are you doing?
B: I’m great, thank you! And you?
A: I’m well, thanks.
B: Oh, excuse me. Is this your pen?
A: Yes, it is! Thank you so much!
B: You’re welcome!